Let’s sum this answer up quickly – absolutely not. Upon meeting a woman, the first and typically only thing men are thinking about is satisfying the physical desire that is burning in both of our heads. Pun intended. Moving on. I wish I could sit here and defend the stereotypes hurled against men for caring too much about the physical, but the harsh reality is that most men aren’t thinking anything about “the next steps” until many days, weeks or even months down the line.
Men are physical creatures. We are naturally aroused when we see an attractive women. It’s in our genetics. We don’t control it. As a result, the animalistic nature inside of us takes over and we quickly decipher if we should attempt to swing for the fences or stay in the dugout and cheer from a distance. Now of course, not all men think or act this way. There are some gentleman left in this world who suppress their natural urges and rationally sift through their mental checklist to decide if you are “future material” relatively quickly.
Some advice going forward – embrace the mindset that all men are only concerned about satisfying themselves. Call our bluff. Force us to play a different hand. We love to be challenged and love when a woman offers something different. A confident, strong and intelligent woman will have a man running in circles trying to make you his future!
You want a man to think about the future quicker? Change the game! The ball is in your court. We are the greatest puppets in the world!
What has been your experience? How do you get men to think about the future quicker? Fellas, agree or disagree? Let’s discuss it!
Peace and Blessings,
Labstery
The gospel truth is that the first thing that comes to a man's mind when he sees an attractive women is the thought of what it will be like to have her alone and naked in his bed. However, what helps us to draw the line between pursuing that line of thought to physical reality and discarding it all together is the spirit of God which separates the spiritual man from the canal man.
ReplyDeleteOn who controls the game, I think the absolute control dwells with the woman. However the unfortunate thing is that the society and its 'man-made rules' and its supposedly man controlled machinery has made the women folk to believe they don't have this power and that the power lies in man's domain. Once women realize that the power to steer a relationship in their direction is their absolute reserve then things will begin to brighten up for the womenfolk. I once read from somewhere that all a man needs to have sex is a right place, whereas a woman needs a right reason to have sex.
Take control of your life ladies, you have all the power within you even to control men. Meanwhile things will continue to be the same till that time comes when women will decide to take absolute control